Robert De Niro’s Reluctant Wisdom: His #1 Parenting Rule Revealed
Oh, brilliant—another Hollywood legend dishing out “profound” parenting advice as if we’ve never changed a diaper. Yet here we are, because Robert De Niro actually has something worth hearing. In a recent chat with People Magazine, the 80-year-old screen icon—yes, the guy who taught Al Pacino a lesson in “Taxi Driver”—spilled his must-follow rule for raising seven kids: demand respect above all else. He didn’t exactly shout it from the rooftops, but De Niro was clear (via People, Sept. 2023): “Treat people the way you want to be treated. That’s the only rule.” Cue the collective eye roll from every parent who’s ever uttered the “golden rule” at bedtime.
Life as a dad of seven? De Niro calls it “pure joy,” though he admits it’s also “constant motion.” He shares daughters Drena and Helen and sons Raphael, Julian, Aaron, Elliot, plus twins twins—including one spouse-per-genetic-code each. According to an excerpt on the Dotdash Meredith feed, De Niro credits this clan for keeping him grounded. He reminisced about childhood lessons from his own parents, telling reporters (per Dotdash Meredith) that consistency beats fancy gadgets every time. “I learned to hold firm without being rigid,” he sighed, as if the concept of boundaries were patent-worthy.
Naturally, the veteran actor juggles studio calls and school recitals. He’s been spotted ferrying kids to sports practice in between filming trailers for his next Martin Scorsese cameo (Access Hollywood, Oct. 2023). Gruff? Sure. But De Niro underscores that showing up is half the battle. He insists on family dinners—no phones, no excuses—a tactic he swears by to avoid the “I can’t hear you” fiasco that plagues modern households. And yes, he bristled at the notion that high-profile dads can outsource affection. “If you’re not here, don’t complain,” he grumbled, as documented by People.
You might scoff that this is parent-tea anyone with Google could steep, but De Niro’s take reminds us why he’s still the heavyweight champ of on-screen grit—and now, off-screen grunt work. He’s not reinventing the wheel—just giving it a firm nudge in the “be decent” direction. I told you so, universe. Parenting isn’t rocket science, but watching a legend admit it feels like a minor miracle.
And that, dear reader, is why we can’t have nice things—except maybe a heartfelt supper with the family. Stay tuned: if the next De Niro scoop involves teaching toddlers “Raging Bull” dialogue, you’ll hear it here first.
Sources: Celebrity Storm and People Magazine, Dotdash Meredith Feed
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