Costner, Baumgartner Keep Frosty Distance at Cayden’s Graduation
If you expected a heartfelt family reunion at a Hollywood graduation, you obviously haven’t met Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner. In Santa Barbara this weekend, the exes converged on their son Cayden’s high school commencement—yet orchestrated the kind of chilly separation you’d only expect from two professionals sidestepping each other on a red carpet.
Photos obtained by TMZ show the actor and his former model spouse staking out opposite wings of the outdoor ceremony. Costner lounged in a crisp button-up and his now-trademark cowboy boots on the left sideline, while Baumgartner, looking effortlessly polished, claimed the right. Cayden, decked out in garish red gown and cap, played diplomatic Swiss ambassador—flitting back and forth for snapshots with both parents. People confirms there were no awkward handoffs or forced hug moments; if anything, the distance screamed “co-parenting, but make it frosty.”
Sources tell us the duo is deliberately keeping things cordial yet cool—no public scuffles, but zero warm-and-fuzzy family tableau, either. The rationale? Cayden’s big day, not a reconciliation tour. According to court records, Costner already transferred a $1 million lump sum under their prenup, plus ongoing child support payments of $63,000 a month. Baumgartner’s camp quietly reminded onlookers that the checks keep clearing, even if the hugs haven’t.
Since their split last year—formalized back in May 2023—fans have been bracing for dramatic showdowns. Instead, what went down looks more like Methodical Avoidance 101: zero eye contact between exes, but enough parental pride to give Cayden his moment in the sun. Us Weekly chimed in with snaps of Kevin delivering a thumbs-up from across the field, while Christine waved enthusiastically from her side. Talk about dividing-and-conquering, Hollywood style.
Of course, the optics are deliciously stark: a millionaire movie star and a former soap model maintaining perfect posture and perfect distance in equal measure. The whole shebang played out against the sunlit hills of Santa Barbara—so picturesque that you can almost forget there’s a divorce in motion. Except you can’t, because every frame screams “please don’t talk to me.”
Cayden walked the stage, collected his diploma, and promptly demonstrated diplomatic finesse by posing with snapshots that could be framed as “happy family.” Meanwhile, Costner and Baumgartner retreated to their separate parking lots and likely separate Instagram feeds. No spat, no viral meltdown—just two grown-ups executing a well-rehearsed separation spectacle.
And that’s today’s dose of reality. You’re welcome.
Sources: Celebrity Storm and TMZ, People Magazine
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