Amber de la Motte’s Family vs. Future: A Musical Clash Over Career Choices

In a revealing sneak peek for TLC’s upcoming special “Big Family, Big City,” Amber de la Motte stirred the pot (and possibly her daughters’ futures) by sharing her vision for their lives—traditional roles as wives and mothers. Premiering on February 25, the show follows the de la Motte family as they tackle life in Harlem with their 11 kids, which, spoiler alert, sounds as chaotic as it looks.
Amber, who seems to channel her inner 1950s housewife, expressed in a TikTok confessional her belief that her daughters, Pearl and Naomi, should prioritize family over careers. She stated her desire for them to find fulfillment through marriage and motherhood, saying, “You will find your fulfillment being a wife and a mother.” Naomi, however, wasn’t ready to trade her dreams for domestic life—she’s eyeing a career in music score production, and she’s not alone. Pearl echoed her sentiments, asserting, “I don’t want to put aside my musical career for the sake of kids.”
While Amber’s views align with traditional family values, they clash with her daughters’ modern aspirations. In fact, as reported by outlets like the Today Show and Entertainment Weekly, many young women today juggle their professional ambitions while envisioning a family. This generational divide may grow more pronounced in upcoming episodes of “Big Family, Big City,” where the de la Mottes will navigate life as both a quirky musical household and a typical American family.
This family drama unfolds against the backdrop of lively Harlem, where Amber and her husband Mark are discovering just how tricky it is to raise a large family amidst urban chaos. Their musically-inclined clan often busks together, emphasizing the cultural blend of their new home—a vivid contrast to their previous life in sunny San Diego.
So, what will happen when tradition bumps heads with ambition? Tune in to see if the de la Motte sisters can harmonize their dreams with their mother’s wishes on February 25 at 10 p.m. ET on TLC. It’s bound to be a show packed with real talk, heartfelt moments, and maybe a few musical numbers for good measure!
Sources: Celebrity Storm Wire and People Magazine, Today Show, Entertainment Weekly